Grandi
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Post by Grandi on Oct 18, 2008 20:59:51 GMT -5
I think I was referencing the absurdity of hitting on someone while you are in a relationship. Either that or I was being an idiot.
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Post by goten0040 on Oct 18, 2008 21:06:09 GMT -5
It wasn't just you. And I can see how your post relates a bit to the topic, but I think that it was straying rather quickly, so I thought I'd remind everyone.
Anyways.......
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Horyo
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Post by Horyo on Oct 18, 2008 23:06:07 GMT -5
I don't believe you should use love in that context. From what I can see, he's interested in you, but it doesn't seem like he's committed, otherwise he'd have broken up with her and taken a chance.
Or he's trying to lead you on, and get something he shouldn't be getting. I'd probably try to get to know him better, but still remain distant and wary.
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Post by MoonChild on Oct 18, 2008 23:48:42 GMT -5
All of you are right. <.< It's just that Nathan is a really sweet guy and he's the first I've ever met who got pooed on by a turtle at the zoo and admits it openly.
I want to follow the given advice, but my heart says "stick with him".
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Post by goten0040 on Oct 19, 2008 0:06:50 GMT -5
No, that's your hormones. Lol!
Really, if you even want to consider being with him, you need to give him an ultimatum. You're not gonna be Number Two. End of discussion. If he wants to even consider you as a girlfriend, he's got to ditch the other girl, becuase he's not respecting you if he's cheating on his girlfriend with you. They can be as sweet as sugar, but that doesn't mean that he's not playing you.
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Post by MoonChild on Oct 19, 2008 0:13:43 GMT -5
True, but we are just friends now, I just had doubt that a "friend" would be all like "You smell nice" and stroke my face/hair.
I think he wants to be more but I don't want to talk to him about that yet; I might ruin our friendship.
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Post by Paraiba Ocean on Oct 19, 2008 9:55:10 GMT -5
Again, your hormones talking, lulz. :/
He's not respecting his girlfriend for by saying those things and the way he acts around you.
So what's to happen when you become his girlfriend?
Nathan might be sweet, but appearances can be deceiving.
Whenever a serial killer is caught, he's not the one that people say, "Oh, yeah. He was a total a-hole. I can see him being one." He's the one people say, "I never knew. He was so nice to my family and myself..."
Not that Nathan's a serial killer; but you get the idea. XD;;
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Post by MoonChild on Oct 20, 2008 0:08:40 GMT -5
I know. -_-; Last night I couldn't sleep because he wasn't there.
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Post by Gran Gran on Oct 20, 2008 0:18:26 GMT -5
Well, there is a big difference between having a crush and actually being with somebody.
And frankly, the crush is so much more fun. Sounds weird, I know, but when you are with somebody you eventually have to deal with the real person.
I know, I am not helping.
ANYHOW. being in love is NO reason to throw common sense overboard! I think you already know the answer, because you asked here. You know it's fishy. If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, it's likely to be a duck!
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Post by MoonChild on Oct 20, 2008 0:44:47 GMT -5
He's not a duck! I know I should talk to him but I'mscared that what I say might hurt him.
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Post by Kohana on Oct 20, 2008 2:05:16 GMT -5
Gran knows he's not a duck. It was just a figure of speech. Well, maybe you should try to come up with the most gentle way to lay it down to him. To try to avoid getting him hurt but still be honest with him. And even if he does get hurt by it, he'll get over it. The important thing is that you do talk to him about this, not letting this hurt thing stop you from it, and be honest during the talk.
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Grandi
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Post by Grandi on Oct 20, 2008 17:51:40 GMT -5
If he's a duck you probably shouldn't bang him before checking if that's legal in your area.
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Post by Gran Gran on Oct 20, 2008 18:27:50 GMT -5
If he's a duck you probably shouldn't bang him before checking if that's legal in your area. We cleared he is not a Duck.... Darkwing Duck was pretty smexy though
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