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Post by Gran Gran on Jul 20, 2011 17:02:28 GMT -5
Well, thanks for your advice, but actually... We just broke it off. BIG ol' fight. I'll spare the details. Anyways, he gets his family, I get my life, we're square. I realized during the fight that I'm in love with who he was when I met him, not the scum bag he's become. He's a lying, cheating son of a b***h, and I'm better than that; especially with how I've supported him with everything. I'm done, gone, vanished, etc. In short... I'M SINGLE, surds! lmao I am sorry, Honey! breaking up is never easy. Take the time to reflect and take care of yourself. You have a lot of life ahead of you and a lot of good guys are out there for you yet to find!
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Post by Baylee on Jul 20, 2011 19:05:33 GMT -5
I am sorry, Honey! breaking up is never easy. Take the time to reflect and take care of yourself. You have a lot of life ahead of you and a lot of good guys are out there for you yet to find! Thank you, but in all honesty, I'm fine. The only time it got me was the first couple of minutes, when I realized everything we've been building for years is gone. After that, though, I realized that I got my life back. I can do what a teenager is supposed to be able to do now, without being guilty, or tied down. Will I miss him? Well...yeah, at times, I'm sure...but I'm better off, I think. And @musogato...sorry for the cussing. lol Bad habit. Forgot we can't do that here.
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Post by Musogato on Jul 21, 2011 3:03:40 GMT -5
That's a good way to look at it, and best of luck with moving forward.
(And understandable; I have a swearing habit too, lol. Usually the forum filter will take care of things, but sometimes stuff will still slip through.)
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Post by Baylee on Jul 21, 2011 10:58:23 GMT -5
^^Thanks! I am doing very well with this. Actually, word got out, and I've had a couple of guys ask me about it already...but I turned them down. I want some time to mingle, and look around a bit haha
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Post by Mari on Jul 21, 2011 20:54:03 GMT -5
Yes mingle!! Have fun being single!!!! We can all love my baby, that's a good trade off ^_^
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Post by Baylee on Jul 21, 2011 21:24:15 GMT -5
^^Hahaha there you go!
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Post by Paraiba Ocean on Jul 22, 2011 21:44:04 GMT -5
In my experience, if you can't learn how to be happy single, you generally won't end up happy with someone. Especially after such a long term relationship, you should take some time to move on past the relationship and everything that transpired. Enjoy the single life
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Post by Baylee on Jul 22, 2011 21:50:37 GMT -5
In my experience, if you can't learn how to be happy single, you generally won't end up happy with someone. Especially after such a long term relationship, you should take some time to move on past the relationship and everything that transpired. Enjoy the single life Exactly what I am planning on doing
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