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Post by Paraiba Ocean on May 29, 2011 2:15:22 GMT -5
In response to the OP for the thread, it's better to be alone than a bad/unhealthy relationship. Nothing is worse than being with someone you're miserable with, and if you commit to someone who you don't share mutual feelings towards it will most likely end in heartbreak on someone's end (usually the other person if you're not into it). I didn't date much in high school (only one guy for a VERY brief period), and I wouldn't say my high school experience was any less without the drama romance.
My advice is don't feel pressured or like something is "wrong" with you if you haven't/didn't want to date... because then I should feel like something is "wrong" with me too. lmao.
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Post by SD on Jun 8, 2011 17:37:35 GMT -5
at the moment got no one and i wanna let that be for a while
i have had it with guys..... if they wont lie to you, then they will disrespect you and if they wont do that than they will not care about you as they should
not hating on guys although it may sound like that and i know not every guy is like that but really..... for all these years now i only met that kinda type a guys and its disgusting , like totally ill just wait for a more mature and nice enviroment to live in and ill be able to meet some more logical people from this world
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Mari
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Post by Mari on Jun 17, 2011 14:38:17 GMT -5
You got time don't worry about it
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Post by nymphadora on Jun 25, 2011 0:24:20 GMT -5
I'm nineteen and haven't been in a relationship, but I don't really want to be in one if it isn't going anywhere. I know it seems unlikely that I'm going to find the person I'm going to marry at this age, but I can wait. If I build a very good friendship with a guy and can see myself falling in love with him, then I'd want to do something about it. All my friends are loving fooling around with whoever, and it's cool if that's what they want. I feel like a bit of a prude being around them, but I'm happy with my choices. When we go out dancing, they all seem a lot more comfortable dancing with drunk strangers than me. I really don't see the appeal of doing that and then drunkenly hooking up with some guy who is likely a creeper. And I don't want to be talked about the next morning, like I hear many many guys doing.
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Post by Consonant*** on Jul 1, 2011 0:12:12 GMT -5
at the moment got no one and i wanna let that be for a while i have had it with guys..... if they wont lie to you, then they will disrespect you and if they wont do that than they will not care about you as they should not hating on guys although it may sound like that and i know not every guy is like that but really..... for all these years now i only met that kinda type a guys and its disgusting , like totally ill just wait for a more mature and nice enviroment to live in and ill be able to meet some more logical people from this world Stop dating lacrosse players
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Baylee
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Post by Baylee on Jul 7, 2011 10:28:19 GMT -5
I think it's totally okay that you haven't found a boyfriend/girlfriend/lover yet! I know a lot of people who are either in, or close to, college and haven't had one yet. I respect their (and your) honesty, morals, and other judgement-related reasons. I think it's cool that you're honest enough to reject people because you honestly have no interest in them. Normally, people just say "what the hell" and say yes anyway, mostly because a relationship often involves sex. That is my side of the tracks. I come from a relatively small school of about 400, and I'm in the popular crowd. I see people dating for social status, sex, etc. I am involved in this crowd...However, I don't do it for sex or social status...I just get really lonely really easy...so dating someone helps give me a reason to hangout with someone a lot. It's kind of a nasty thing, I admit. I don't think I've been single for more than a month since I was 13. =/ (And yes. I know even though I'm disappointed, I can change it. But things are complicated)
My advice to you, though? Take your time, and find someone you genuinely like. Usually...the special ones come when you're not looking. My current boyfriend and I have been together for almost two and a half years, and I met him while I was moping around over a break-up.
You just never know...(: Someone special may just walk around the corner one day. Don't give in until it happens, either. It never pays to settle, and no one deserves second-rate.
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